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[Huy]

The internet cafe near my house just hired a girl to look after the daily business there. I find her so cute from the very first look. Moreover, my heart fall for her even more when I by chance heard that she is a student at Foreign Trade University. So she is a student just like me, and from a good university. I literally *like* her. But the problem is, I don't know how to make aquantance to her. I don't even know if she has had the 'someone special' or not (although I'm rather hopeful because I haven't seen her with some boy around, although sometimes her female friends come to the shop to chit chat with her).
Worse still, she doesn't seem to like chatting on the Internet (so I can find some way to get her Yahoo nick ;). Wow, it's so hard for me to start conversations with her, as there are always customers there. She looks really cute, the right kind of face that I like. Nah, I can't just let things as it is. Who knows how long she will stay with this job? If tomorrow she leaves, I'll be very sad!!!
Please sb gives me some advice, some consult. If you're a boy, what would you do to attack a girl's heart when she don't know you? And if you are a girl, what would attract your attention? How a strange boy would do to catch your eyes?
Help me quick plzzzzzz!!!!
(I post this problem in this forum because I know there are many girls here :) Hope you will give me some advice!)

[kellyjo]

Life is too short. You need to just go up and talk to her. All she can say is
no, right? BUT, she might say "yes". Girls like guys that are bold and
have an outgoing personality. Girls don't like whimps. So go for it!!
What do you have to loose? and good luck to you. GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!
She may be your "SOUL MATE"??? You don't know until you go for it...
Kelly Jo, USA GOOD LUCK!!!!!! I will be thinking of you!!!!!!!

The internet cafe near my house just hired a girl to look after the daily business there. I find her so cute from the very first look. Moreover, my heart fall for her even more when I by chance heard that she is a student at Foreign Trade University. So she is a student just like me, and from a good university. I literally *like* her. But the problem is, I don't know how to make aquantance to her. I don't even know if she has had the 'someone special' or not (although I'm rather hopeful because I haven't seen her with some boy around, although sometimes her female friends come to the shop to chit chat with her).
Worse still, she doesn't seem to like chatting on the Internet (so I can find some way to get her Yahoo nick ;). Wow, it's so hard for me to start conversations with her, as there are always customers there. She looks really cute, the right kind of face that I like. Nah, I can't just let things as it is. Who knows how long she will stay with this job? If tomorrow she leaves, I'll be very sad!!!
Please sb gives me some advice, some consult. If you're a boy, what would you do to attack a girl's heart when she don't know you? And if you are a girl, what would attract your attention? How a strange boy would do to catch your eyes?
Help me quick plzzzzzz!!!!
(I post this problem in this forum because I know there are many girls here :) Hope you will give me some advice!)

[kellyjo]

p.s. Another great thing is to have a flower shôp send her flowers and
"sign" your name. Then go up to her the next day and introduce yourself
and tell her that you were thẻ one who sent her the flowers. That will
start a conversation with her. Send her a "spring bouquet" for friendship.
See what réponse you get from her by this gesture. I would love it!!!
Good Luck, Kelly Jo

[Đặng Quỳnh My]

Yup! Kelly's right. Girls do like strong men with a unique charisma. Go for it man!

[Huy]

Wow, this morning, when I paid the Internet money, I talked to her. Yes! I TALKED with her. That was fantastic!!! It was not as hard as I thought before - not AT ALL! I was a bit nervous before starting. But right after she replied to my first question (I asked if she is a student from FTU) with a smile, all my nervousness just disappeared. After answering my second question, she started asking about me - yes indeed!!! She was so open, the way she smiled, the way she slightly nodded & shook her head was so... well, I don't know what to say. It was soooooooo pleasant talking to her.
After the talk - just about 10 minutes I guess - I didn't have any idea about time then but I looked at my watch when leaving the Internet cafe, I just still couldn't believe I had talked with such a uniquely lovely girl, and I couldn't belive even more that it was so easy! She's a very open kind of person, but I know she is by no means the easy kind of girls. By the way I don't like beautiful but easy girls who would accept to go out with any boy :( Anyway, she's not beautiful in the common way, but she's got features that are exactly what I've always liked. Her smile is unforgettable to me. Yes indeed, yes indeed!!!
Wow, it's a good start. Now I know her class, and I have some friends who are studying at her university. Next time, I'll talk with her longer. I'm really looking forward to it! So excited now!!!
Thank you Kelly & My, I wish you the best things in the word ever!!! You inspired me!!! And you've probably saved me the girl of my life ^_^ I'm so happy. Happy to everyone! Life's good! NOPE! IT'S GREAT!!!
Kiss you a thousand times XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

[Tacaza]

Then remember to let us know how you are doing :) No matter what, as kelly said, you've got nothing to lose after all!
Ps: Be who you are and say what you think, for those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind ;)

[kellyjo]

Dear Huy,
I read your post when I got hơme from work and it made my day....
I was só happy for you!!! I am glad to hear the "greát" news!!
WOW!!! Keep up the good work and let us know when "your first date
with her is." Go for it!!! The best of luck to you. I'm glad that I could
help, but remember I didn't really do anything. YOU did, you took the
first step.... Kelly Jo

[Huy]

Several days ago I went to this website and I couldn't enter it, don't know the reason why (may be because of the my slow dial-up connection - I should have gone to an Internet cafe ;). Now it's normal again.
Ok, I'm very pleased to tell you guys about that make friend thing. Now everything's fine. I'm one of her CLOSE friends. Well, not yet exactly what I intended to be, but that's already great. I've visited her house and she's visited mine. (actually the latter happened first :). Now she and I seem to be able to talk about most things - friends, fun, entertainment... The good news is that she hasn't got a boy friend !!! But I've never talked about my true feelings for her yet. Not that I'm too shy or sth, it's just that I haven't felt it's the right time yet. And she's the kind of very carefree girl, and I would be really sorry if I make her sad or thinking hard by saying sth that I won't be sure of the effect.
Now, time is my ally I guess.

And I want to tell all of you this: to me, she's a FLOWER!!!

[kellyjo]

Huy, I am so happy to read what you wrote. WoW!!!! Your first step toward the situation was all it took and "fate" was on your side.... I can't belive you have been to eachother's houses and everything. WoW!!! Keep on Keeping on and it may lead to something more. I am so excited and happy for you!!! GREAT NEWS for ALL of us. CONGRADULATIONS!!!! Even if you don't end up boyfriend and girlfriend, maybe she can end up being a LIFELONG friend. The comment you made about her being "your flower" is so romantic. ya, ya, ya.... Sounds like things are going in the right direction for you. Just keep playing your cards right. Sometimes a relationship is bẻtter if yỏu are friends first and then it will develop into more later. Keêp us posted on "all" the juicey details...... I will be thinking of you, Kelly Jo

[HeartlessSAL]

Lol, all it took it the first step... after you take the first step, everything else gonna go as flow... but remember, how u gonna manage the relationship without ruining it, or day dreaming about any signals is not easy...and for now... it is good that you and her should start off as friends, trust each other, and really get to know each other more... remember when she is yours, she is gonna be yours... it is just a matter of time... dont scare her away...

Of course, dont try to hide your feeling when u think the time is right... what i am saying is... no matter what we say, how we advice you... you are the one in it... and you have to make it, that all...

:D

Good luck to you, man!