She's 15 and that shirt was in very poor taste. As someone who used to be 15, I look back and appreciate the times older adults pointed out that my behavior or clothes were offensive or rude. When I was 10 I made a tombstone Halloween costume out of an old box. My Father forbids me to wear it because our neighbor had cancer. As a ten-year-old, I didn't get it. Now I do. You're good! Teacher cactus not a hugger shirt. Normally I would say YTA but because it's a shirt that has a suicide note on it NTA. My reasoning for this is because people are glorifying mental illness and turning a person's suicide note into a fashion trend? That's a big no from me. You are actually the one setting a bad example for your daughter, her...

I found offensive and I was chaperoning I'd 100% ask them to change or wear a coat. Rebellious is a fine thing to be, but the rebellion has consequences. Most of these YTA votes are clearly teenagers themselves. Future Ladies' Man Current Mama's Boy Shirt. You were doing the girls a favor and found the shirt in poor taste. You were within your rights to request a change of clothes as a condition of taking them, and she was within her rights in deciding against it. Can I just say that even though I do think YTA here, you are handling the comments with grace, and I respect that? I would not escort a child around to a movie wearing something so ridiculously disrespectful and tasteless. All the idiots on...

I usually don't care about appearances. I was just worried that someone that has been through that situation would see the shirt and feel that I was flippant about the tragedy. I don't want to say too much but it's kinda job-related. Cows You don't have to be crazy to work here we'll train you shirt. That's understandable, but unless there was a high chance of someone you work with (who wouldn't believe your explanation if you tried to give one) seeing you guys there, your priorities are still kind of in the wrong place/ you could have reacted better. Also please don't think I'm trying to paint you as an awful person. I'm not, all humans over think/handle things wrong/ make mistakes sometimes....

You overstepped your bounds. She’s not your child, and most people weren’t going to read her shirt, especially not while sitting in a dark movie theater. It’s good to tell her how you feel about the shirt, but not your place to tell her if she can wear it. I get us out of trouble shirt. I'm not able o come up with any reasonable thought that justifies your action... if it was something insane like a Nazi shirt, then we could have a discussion. NAH OP your POV makes sense and in your situation, if I had recognized the shirt I would have done the same thing. It's kind of brutal the way things turned out though, but what can you do. It doesn't make you a bitch, it just means you care about your appearance. I...

Not your kid, so not your business what she wears. 2. Even if she was your responsibility- they were going to a movie. No one is going to be craning their neck in the dark to read her shirt. That you needed to embarrass and attempt to control someone else’s kid to such a ridiculous extent makes me think you might need to do some serious self-evaluation. I get us into trouble shirt. And if you had to lean in to see, on closer inspection, what the t-shirt said, then others - from a distance - would not have been able to read it either. Not your child, not your problem. If you caught the girls actively discussing suicide as a solution, yes - by all means, there you could get involved. But a t-shirt? You acted like a child to...