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You're too nice

From time we were infants, our parents told is to "be nice". They taught us to be polite and to share and to be considerate and kind. It's good advice. In our life, there are many relationships requiring mutual respect. However, one can be too nice and when you're too nice.

In a relationship, it's possible to be considerate, helpful and selfless, you  can recognize:

1, You're too respectful

In most social situations, good manners and respect for other people will get you pretty far. But when there are only you and yr wife or yr girlfriend, she doesn't want you to be delicate or tentative what she want is spontaneity, assertiveness and sense of adventure even a litlle dirty talk. ^.^

2. You're too interested.

It's bad sign if you're more interested in her life than you are in your own. Not only will she eventually get tired of you sticking your nose in her business.

3. You're too complimentary

Every women loves to be complimented, but evry women also wants your compliments to be genuine. Once ou start telling her how beautiful she is sic times a day, the words loss all meaning.

4. You're too understanding

It's a fact of life, some people suck, and even good people do bad things from time to time. Trying to "understand" another person's point of view as he or she walks over you isn't tolerant; it's spineless. Sometimes you have to stand up for your self. Most importantly, if your partner see other people walking all over you, she'll walk all over you too... that is, until she walks out on you.

5. You're too cheerful

The last of your signs you're too nice has to do with your mood. If you're smiling and cheery all the time, i'm sure that, everyone'll get pissed off once in a while


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