4 Techniques for getting hẻ number

When men descend upon the nightclub and bar scene, they have a primary goal. This goal -- known by all in the vicinity and thereby making it more challenging -- is to obtain a cute girl’s phone number, which of course acts as a springboard to more intimate encounters. At this stage, would-be Players will pipe up with their own two cents’ worth, boasting about the one “tried-and-true” method that has never failed them. However, as the discerning student who actually wishes to learn, you should dismiss such prideful claims; there are no guarantees in this game. One night is always different from another and no two women are the same, so it’s best if you have several options at your disposal. The following tips are the four best methods of landing those digits, and to have a solid acceptance-to-rejection ratio, it’s a good idea to take them as a package deal. In other words, write all four down -- don’t just pick one. Here are the Player's 4 techniques for getting her number.

Leave a debate unfinished

This is a tip that rarely fails, but it requires a talented pickup artist that is especially charming and engrossing. First of all, you need to dedicate some time to the woman -- which of course won’t go unnoticed -- and secondly, you need to prepare ahead of time for the cliffhanger that will lead to a phone call. You must select a topic that she clearly enjoys speaking about and you need to get her animated -- even somewhat emotional. This is where the gentle touch and tact comes into play. You don’t want to push her over the edge, so make sure you have selected an inoffensive subject. In other words, go for movies or art rather than politics or religion. You just want to get her involved to the point where she has something invested in the discussion, which would require some additional explanation in order to prove her point. Her final directive should be, “you better call me tomorrow so we can finish this!” accompanied by the phone number.

Be pressed for time

This works especially well if it’s getting toward the end of the night and everyone is beginning to filter out. Perhaps you bumped into her late and you’d typically need more time to secure her trust, but the chances of seeing her again are slim. Well, you can simply adopt the idea that you really can’t hang around much longer -- and there are any number of explanations to complement the “I really have to go” comment. Maybe you’re there with a few friends, one of whom has to “get up early” the next day, and you’re holding him up. For the latter, you will add the disclaimer that you’d much rather talk to her all night long but at this point, it’s really not possible. The bottom line: You’re running out of time and, although it kills you to cut things short, you could finish what you started on the phone.

Make a date

It’s the most straightforward option on the list: If you make a date with a girl, she’s more than a little obliged to call you. The trick is to make a solid first impression that carries on through the conversation, and hopefully you two will have several common denominators that will automatically breed closer relations. Now, you may believe that if you have already secured the date you don’t necessarily need the phone number. Why, you have already gotten what you wanted, right? Wrong. A date can be an isolated incident and most certainly isn’t a guarantee of future interaction, while a phone number means you can attempt to forge further interaction at any point down the line. For example, if the date ended on a fairly ambiguous note but you’re smitten (or interested at the very least), you have a way of contacting her for another get-together. You can also use a phone number to simply issue the appropriate niceties; women adore that kind of thing.

Intrigue her

It’s not just about sparking the necessary interest; it’s about generating intrigue that will spill over into the inevitable phone call. Perhaps you could be somewhat mysterious (but not distant) in regards to a topic she’s interested in learning more about, or maybe you have an especially entertaining history that always gathers crowds at parties. Whatever the approach, you have to snag and hold her interest throughout the duration of the encounter, so it may be best to center on one tactic ahead of time. For instance, as a writer, it’s always easy to pretend I have hit a creative roadblock of some kind, and due to the irritation it causes I’d rather avoid the subject. Well, women love to think they can help. Or, if you’re feeling confident, you can feel her out during the first minute or so and eventually fall upon a topic that will keep her rooted to the spot.  “Oh, you’re a bartender? I know this bartender who…”

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